My friend Alicia lives in a residence hall for graduate students which is not associated to any particular university. It's centrally located and relatively affordable, but it is still a residence hall and worse, they expect you to be involved socially with the community living there. She's joined the wine tasting club and salsa dancing lessons, so it's not all bad, but she's also required to invite her supervisor to a meet-each-other's-supervisors dinner. (Her supervisor turned down the invitation, so that's a potentially awkward situation averted.)Anyway, I've been going to the salsa classes with her on Saturdays. Gabriel (the guy who is teaching the classes) is a friend of Alicia's who is also from Mexico. It's no easy task trying to teach these stiff Brits how to dance, especially because he has to teach them in English instead of Spanish.
I've been going for a few weeks now, but last week was the first week that I felt like we were actually dancing a bit. It was a small group on Saturday, with more guys than girls. This was a welcome change but more importantly the guys who showed up on Saturday were decent and, having a few weeks under our belts, we could finally do a bit more than just stumbling through disjointed sequences of moves, desperately trying to remember the next step. Also, I got to dance with Gabriel more. He's really good and it's so nice to dance with someone who can.
I like my Mexican friends. We spent the rest of the evening drinking beers chelada style and then Mezcal with lime and a crushed salt/chili/worm mixture.
On Thursday this week, we took our dancing public for the first time. It was really fun, but much harder than our lessons, where we have a big room with plenty of space. At the bar it was crowded, with everyone bumping into each other. I kept getting thrown off balance or just distracted. And the music they played there was Cuban and much faster than the Mexican salsa we've been learning. Also, it had been a long day and I was really tired. But I hope we go back soon. Pubs beat bars by a long shot, but it's so nice to get up from the sedentary office/pub life and move.
